Happy Valentines Day

  Valentines Day is a celebration for the romantic and the young at heart. It’s about the excitement of someone who prompts our hearts to sing and heightens our feelings of joy with just the thought of being together. It’s about the joy of connecting with that special someone that we feel we may have known forever. Why this elated condition occurs in our lives at certain times, but not others, has always been a great mystery of life.

Psychologists say that romance is the result of projecting that someone is what we want them to be. We fill in the blanks so to speak and assume we have the person of our dreams. The bubble is burst when we discover that the other person is not everything that we had hoped for. This can be quite a shock.

The masters tell us that truth is within and that the universe reflects back to us our view of reality. They say it is very useful to view others as an extension of our inner truth and inner processes. We tend to draw to us people with like energetics, like spiritual focus, and like emotional processes. They reflect back to us different aspects of ourselves-mirrors so to speak. Even the thought processes which tend to repeat themselves, also tend to be reflected in others and show us what belief systems we are operating off of as well.

Fortunately, the universe offers unlimited opportunity for growth and an ability for us to recreate our inner self and our outer reality. In fact these mirrors become very helpful for us to view these aspects of ourselves that we may be overlooking in ourselves and be unable to access.

This does not mean that we must spend every waking moment analyzing our lives, but it does mean that by seeing these aspects of our ourselves in others, we have opportunity to be more of what we want to be. In addition, this means that we can bring what we want into a relationship and allow the mirror effect to show us the best in relationships.

Sometimes a mirror can show us the same thing we are doing. “I’m angry with life and now I can see it in another so I can reflect on how I may be doing the same thing”.

Sometimes another person may show the effects of what we’re doing. If I lash out for example, another person may show the hurt and sadness in their reaction. This is somewhat a complimentary view of the same situation.

Another interesting thing is the sudden realization that comes when we recognize that a role we are playing with one person is the opposite roll from someone else in our life or perhaps someone in a previous relationship.

What we recognize as mirrors are purely for our own use and not for the purpose of placing blame. Plus, sometimes the views we have rejected in the past appear over again to alert us to important awareness of our own processes.

As these glorious opportunities continually develop, we receive valuable insights and awareness into our own growth and mode of operation. At the same time, we are experiencing moments of warmth and great joy. It is these times of joy and sharing on an intimate and personal level that we celebrate on Valentines Day.

“Viva la difference!”
In Love and Light,
John Pollock,
Angels Grace Healing Ministries,

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